So, as I had mentioned earlier about my Mami and what a royal bitch she had become god knows acting under whose influence or probably just being a poor judge of the entire situation itself. Anyhow, that is something which can happen to anyone of course. For all I know she must be a little mad at the state of affairs regarding her husband's family situation and all, but what I most hated in that E-mail she sent to my mother was the constant mention of pushing things regarding my grand dad, I mean common dude, grow up and call me old fashioned or narrow minded here but for quite sometime I used to think that it was the sons in the family who were suppose to take care of such things and not make their sister's life miserable like this. I mean even when my grand mom was alive I have heard and seen such incidents that used to make me feel what jerks these two brothers really are. Despite the fact that my mom's elder brother stays so close to my grand parent's house my mother still had to come rushing every time all the way from Mirzapur every time something would happen to either my grand dad or my grand mom. Okay, I agree that it is something she should not be neglecting and she clearly hasn't ever but there's a very thin line between being concerned and caring and having extraordinary expectation from someone for each and everything you know. Clearly, this was the latter. Not to forget the fact that since my mom's younger brother stays outside India he is always too pushy regarding the smallest things and always feels the need to make up for the lack of presence and helplessness due to professional and personal reasons. Dude if you really are so concerned like to show it so much all the time then why the hell do you have to stay outside the country and then poke and pinch at every small thing that's happening at the other end. I am sure he realizes the fact that the two people taking care of his folks there are elder and more mature and more responsible than he could ever be, yet he has to act as though god knows what has or can go wrong even under their watch.
Anyways, moving on from here to similar "magnificent" relatives of mine. Since I have in depth and considerable detail mentioned so much about my mom's younger brother's wife I strongly feel I would be doing injustice if I left out her elder brother's wife here. It just won't be fair you know. So, this woman is even more profound and dynamic a bitch than the one I wrote a freakin' essay about.To start with I just fail to understand what on this beautiful planet it was that my mom's elder brother saw in that woman and decided that he has to has to get married to her no matter what happens even if all hell breaks lose, that is the one thing he must ensure he does before his life comes to a virtual stand still, failing to realize that this woman he is hell bent on spending his entire life with is quite capable and trained to make his life a living saga of misery and regrets, yet knowing all that he went on with it and decided to get married to her and now, fuck!! how I wish I could leave it at NOW, but I just can't. Now things have become even more miserable and pathetic to say the least. She has successfully managed to abandon him from his very own family with involvements and interactions that I don't think she is even aware of since he cannot tell her about them. He comes to look up my grand dad everyday but, I have a very strong feeling that she is not aware of these daily visits. Also, whenever she goes away to her home town or somewhere alone for any reason, that is when he is so much better and at ease and would come to have meals with us. Its like he is tied to this rope of marriage and no matter what he tries to do he can't get rid of it or untie this knot he tied himself into. To put it very bluntly, he is Fucked for life. Till date I don't know what it really was that made him convince my grand mom and dad about this marriage, what was it about her at that point of time that pushed him to actually having such a conversation, sometimes I think probably she lured him into the marriage and made sure her intentions went completely unknown from there onwards up until the time they were officially declared as a married couple. What a shrewd little bitch ain't she?, but I don't the real deal here so this is just a random guess I've made keeping in mind the kind of person she is. There is absolutely no one and when I say no one I mean not even a single bloody soul in our family who gets along with that woman purely because of the way she is and who she is. Coming to her daughter, like I said before she is just a more perfected and updated version of her mother, outright self centered and in general just too full of herself and overflowing with the kind of attitude one would say after seeing," get over yourself bitch". She just you know thinks too much of herself as though god knows who the hell she is and what world changing stuff she has done her entire doomed life that people should hear and be proud of. Engrossed in her career she has already made a mess of her personal life and that too with flying colors. Till date I repent on the hell I was succumbed to during her marriage in 2008. I mean seriously that was some A-grade variety of crap that I had come across during that entire time. From being forced to walk down the wedding aisle holding that heavy piece of cloth wrapped metal shit to going all the fuckin' way from pragati maidan to punjabi bagh at 3 in the morning to drop her in a car at her in-laws place and then spending time their and coming back not to forget that I was also made to push the damn car in which she was suppose to go there as some customary tradition in the groom's family. I mean Fuck Me!! what on Earth did I do to deserve this, but I had my cold blooded revenge knowing that she got divorced within a year or so after that god forsaken marriage. Sweet!! Honestly it is after experiencing such things I wonder how these people can live their lives the way they do and be the jerks that they are to everyone. Anyhow, I guess for such people destiny is the devil, despicable in all forms and outright delusional until it draws you into itself.
Now, I am presuming that I have written quite a bit about my mother's side of the family, so its time to FLIP the coin and move on to my father's family. Before I go any further there are some things I would like to mention before hand. My father's family is relatively big, he has three sisters and one elder brother which makes him the youngest member of his family and just like the theory goes the most spoilt and pampered one as well. His three sisters my buas or as his family calls them my nani's, two of them are settled outside the country and one i.e. the eldest in his family is in Ahmedabad. His elder brother is a Brigadier in the Indian Armed Forces and is currently posted in Udampur, Jammu and Kashmir. My grandfather i.e. my dad's dad passed away even before I was born as a matter of fact he passed away in the same year I was born. If I can be honest here, my birth was something he was really looking forward to since he had seen all the grand children by saying that I mean up until that time and since he knew I was coming that year from what I have been told he was a little enthusiastic and this is not something I am writing just to brag about myself but it is quite the truth, call me a showoff if you want to but that's really not the point I am trying to make here. Now that I have given a little insight on this, let me get back to the point and continue from where I left off. His side of the family really doesn't have any such people whom one would hate like the ones I have spoken about and now that I closely think about it, there aren't any such despicable relatives he has.
More on his side of the family in my next post, for now I leave you with this and much more to think about once your done reading this.
Cheers and take care.
Anuj Das.
Anyways, moving on from here to similar "magnificent" relatives of mine. Since I have in depth and considerable detail mentioned so much about my mom's younger brother's wife I strongly feel I would be doing injustice if I left out her elder brother's wife here. It just won't be fair you know. So, this woman is even more profound and dynamic a bitch than the one I wrote a freakin' essay about.To start with I just fail to understand what on this beautiful planet it was that my mom's elder brother saw in that woman and decided that he has to has to get married to her no matter what happens even if all hell breaks lose, that is the one thing he must ensure he does before his life comes to a virtual stand still, failing to realize that this woman he is hell bent on spending his entire life with is quite capable and trained to make his life a living saga of misery and regrets, yet knowing all that he went on with it and decided to get married to her and now, fuck!! how I wish I could leave it at NOW, but I just can't. Now things have become even more miserable and pathetic to say the least. She has successfully managed to abandon him from his very own family with involvements and interactions that I don't think she is even aware of since he cannot tell her about them. He comes to look up my grand dad everyday but, I have a very strong feeling that she is not aware of these daily visits. Also, whenever she goes away to her home town or somewhere alone for any reason, that is when he is so much better and at ease and would come to have meals with us. Its like he is tied to this rope of marriage and no matter what he tries to do he can't get rid of it or untie this knot he tied himself into. To put it very bluntly, he is Fucked for life. Till date I don't know what it really was that made him convince my grand mom and dad about this marriage, what was it about her at that point of time that pushed him to actually having such a conversation, sometimes I think probably she lured him into the marriage and made sure her intentions went completely unknown from there onwards up until the time they were officially declared as a married couple. What a shrewd little bitch ain't she?, but I don't the real deal here so this is just a random guess I've made keeping in mind the kind of person she is. There is absolutely no one and when I say no one I mean not even a single bloody soul in our family who gets along with that woman purely because of the way she is and who she is. Coming to her daughter, like I said before she is just a more perfected and updated version of her mother, outright self centered and in general just too full of herself and overflowing with the kind of attitude one would say after seeing," get over yourself bitch". She just you know thinks too much of herself as though god knows who the hell she is and what world changing stuff she has done her entire doomed life that people should hear and be proud of. Engrossed in her career she has already made a mess of her personal life and that too with flying colors. Till date I repent on the hell I was succumbed to during her marriage in 2008. I mean seriously that was some A-grade variety of crap that I had come across during that entire time. From being forced to walk down the wedding aisle holding that heavy piece of cloth wrapped metal shit to going all the fuckin' way from pragati maidan to punjabi bagh at 3 in the morning to drop her in a car at her in-laws place and then spending time their and coming back not to forget that I was also made to push the damn car in which she was suppose to go there as some customary tradition in the groom's family. I mean Fuck Me!! what on Earth did I do to deserve this, but I had my cold blooded revenge knowing that she got divorced within a year or so after that god forsaken marriage. Sweet!! Honestly it is after experiencing such things I wonder how these people can live their lives the way they do and be the jerks that they are to everyone. Anyhow, I guess for such people destiny is the devil, despicable in all forms and outright delusional until it draws you into itself.
Now, I am presuming that I have written quite a bit about my mother's side of the family, so its time to FLIP the coin and move on to my father's family. Before I go any further there are some things I would like to mention before hand. My father's family is relatively big, he has three sisters and one elder brother which makes him the youngest member of his family and just like the theory goes the most spoilt and pampered one as well. His three sisters my buas or as his family calls them my nani's, two of them are settled outside the country and one i.e. the eldest in his family is in Ahmedabad. His elder brother is a Brigadier in the Indian Armed Forces and is currently posted in Udampur, Jammu and Kashmir. My grandfather i.e. my dad's dad passed away even before I was born as a matter of fact he passed away in the same year I was born. If I can be honest here, my birth was something he was really looking forward to since he had seen all the grand children by saying that I mean up until that time and since he knew I was coming that year from what I have been told he was a little enthusiastic and this is not something I am writing just to brag about myself but it is quite the truth, call me a showoff if you want to but that's really not the point I am trying to make here. Now that I have given a little insight on this, let me get back to the point and continue from where I left off. His side of the family really doesn't have any such people whom one would hate like the ones I have spoken about and now that I closely think about it, there aren't any such despicable relatives he has.
More on his side of the family in my next post, for now I leave you with this and much more to think about once your done reading this.
Cheers and take care.
Anuj Das.
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